"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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IMO, below avg. guy using C+F to no avail

ohiobohio518

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There's this guy I know who's definitely below average in the looks department. However, I can tell he has game by the way he talks to women. BUT..... I was listening to some girls talk and here are some things they had to say about him.

"Eh, he's okay. He thinks he's really good looking when he's really not."

"He thinks just because he had one hot girlfriend he thinks he can get any girl."

"He's a cool guy. Except he thinks he's the [prize] and acts like it. That's annoying."


Is this due to the fact that he's not putting enough of the "funny" into it? I mean, my god, he's FULL of confidence. But he's not pretty.

Judging by girls' reactions, what exactly might he be doing wrong?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ChrizZ

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IMO he´s too ****y or they r just jealous...
 

Charm

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He's not doing anything wrong. You heard the girl. He acts like someone she wishes she found more physically attractive. Too bad for her but he's right on it sounds like.
 

Derek Flint

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The fact that those girls are even talking about him says it all.

If he was a non-C&F, below average-looking guy, would they even be talking about him?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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