"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IMO, below avg. guy using C+F to no avail

ohiobohio518

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There's this guy I know who's definitely below average in the looks department. However, I can tell he has game by the way he talks to women. BUT..... I was listening to some girls talk and here are some things they had to say about him.

"Eh, he's okay. He thinks he's really good looking when he's really not."

"He thinks just because he had one hot girlfriend he thinks he can get any girl."

"He's a cool guy. Except he thinks he's the [prize] and acts like it. That's annoying."


Is this due to the fact that he's not putting enough of the "funny" into it? I mean, my god, he's FULL of confidence. But he's not pretty.

Judging by girls' reactions, what exactly might he be doing wrong?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ChrizZ

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IMO he´s too ****y or they r just jealous...
 

Charm

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He's not doing anything wrong. You heard the girl. He acts like someone she wishes she found more physically attractive. Too bad for her but he's right on it sounds like.
 

Derek Flint

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The fact that those girls are even talking about him says it all.

If he was a non-C&F, below average-looking guy, would they even be talking about him?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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