"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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IMO, below avg. guy using C+F to no avail

ohiobohio518

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There's this guy I know who's definitely below average in the looks department. However, I can tell he has game by the way he talks to women. BUT..... I was listening to some girls talk and here are some things they had to say about him.

"Eh, he's okay. He thinks he's really good looking when he's really not."

"He thinks just because he had one hot girlfriend he thinks he can get any girl."

"He's a cool guy. Except he thinks he's the [prize] and acts like it. That's annoying."


Is this due to the fact that he's not putting enough of the "funny" into it? I mean, my god, he's FULL of confidence. But he's not pretty.

Judging by girls' reactions, what exactly might he be doing wrong?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ChrizZ

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IMO he´s too ****y or they r just jealous...
 

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He's not doing anything wrong. You heard the girl. He acts like someone she wishes she found more physically attractive. Too bad for her but he's right on it sounds like.
 

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The fact that those girls are even talking about him says it all.

If he was a non-C&F, below average-looking guy, would they even be talking about him?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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