"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IMO, below avg. guy using C+F to no avail

ohiobohio518

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There's this guy I know who's definitely below average in the looks department. However, I can tell he has game by the way he talks to women. BUT..... I was listening to some girls talk and here are some things they had to say about him.

"Eh, he's okay. He thinks he's really good looking when he's really not."

"He thinks just because he had one hot girlfriend he thinks he can get any girl."

"He's a cool guy. Except he thinks he's the [prize] and acts like it. That's annoying."


Is this due to the fact that he's not putting enough of the "funny" into it? I mean, my god, he's FULL of confidence. But he's not pretty.

Judging by girls' reactions, what exactly might he be doing wrong?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ChrizZ

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IMO he´s too ****y or they r just jealous...
 

Charm

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He's not doing anything wrong. You heard the girl. He acts like someone she wishes she found more physically attractive. Too bad for her but he's right on it sounds like.
 

Derek Flint

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The fact that those girls are even talking about him says it all.

If he was a non-C&F, below average-looking guy, would they even be talking about him?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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