Doggystyle
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"please don't cry.....you look so ugly when you cry"
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Immunity to Crying
- Thread starter Desdinova
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I had to literally cry once when I got intimate with this young woman. She was young (20s) and very attractive (face and with clothes)...but when she took her clothes off, I didn't feel as attracted. In fact, I lost all the attraction. I still phuck the crap out of her for principle...but it was hard. As I truly had to focus and it was taking me a very long time to ejaculate (40 or so minutes) and I was afraid I was going to go soft. She messed my bed up to (wetness, etc.). So, I was not that happy.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.