Doggystyle
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"please don't cry.....you look so ugly when you cry"
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Immunity to Crying
- Thread starter Desdinova
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I had to literally cry once when I got intimate with this young woman. She was young (20s) and very attractive (face and with clothes)...but when she took her clothes off, I didn't feel as attracted. In fact, I lost all the attraction. I still phuck the crap out of her for principle...but it was hard. As I truly had to focus and it was taking me a very long time to ejaculate (40 or so minutes) and I was afraid I was going to go soft. She messed my bed up to (wetness, etc.). So, I was not that happy.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.