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"please don't cry.....you look so ugly when you cry"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Immunity to Crying
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I had to literally cry once when I got intimate with this young woman. She was young (20s) and very attractive (face and with clothes)...but when she took her clothes off, I didn't feel as attracted. In fact, I lost all the attraction. I still phuck the crap out of her for principle...but it was hard. As I truly had to focus and it was taking me a very long time to ejaculate (40 or so minutes) and I was afraid I was going to go soft. She messed my bed up to (wetness, etc.). So, I was not that happy.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.