Doggystyle
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"please don't cry.....you look so ugly when you cry"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Immunity to Crying
- Thread starter Desdinova
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I had to literally cry once when I got intimate with this young woman. She was young (20s) and very attractive (face and with clothes)...but when she took her clothes off, I didn't feel as attracted. In fact, I lost all the attraction. I still phuck the crap out of her for principle...but it was hard. As I truly had to focus and it was taking me a very long time to ejaculate (40 or so minutes) and I was afraid I was going to go soft. She messed my bed up to (wetness, etc.). So, I was not that happy.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.
After that, I was thinking (right after we finish and laid there)..."Damn... I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I don't want to have sex with her anymore." (as NEVER EVER again).
I was also seeing someone else at the time and she knew it. So, that was my way out.
So, I laid there and started to ACT like if I was feeling guilty (due to having another woman and this being the "first" time that I do this, etc.). I even did a little "crying" and acted "confused" and all that cal.
I think she felt "sorry" for me as she felt I was confused (due to other woman) and was a "nice guy".
Mastering the art of "crying" can help if you do it correctly. And if you do it in such a fashion that does not humillate you. And if you are known to be kind of cold from time to time.