"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Immediate Attraction

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I tend to attract women immediately and powerfully. It's very easy to have sex with multiple women a month the first time I meet them.

The thing is, sex is not interesting to me when I don't have an emotional bond with the girl.

But I've had girls walk away after they proposition me within a few minutes.

Why are girls so "quick" to get laid these days? It's a great ego boost, but little more than that for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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elvis_p said:
I tend to attract women immediately and powerfully. It's very easy to have sex with multiple women a month the first time I meet them.

The thing is, sex is not interesting to me when I don't have an emotional bond with the girl.

But I've had girls walk away after they proposition me within a few minutes.

Why are girls so "quick" to get laid these days? It's a great ego boost, but little more than that for me.
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Well tell us your secret or are you just irrestably good looking.:rolleyes:
 
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Yeah, I'm physically attractive. Even when I dress down, girls still hit on me.

Some hot chick tried to pick me up at a party recently, while her husband was playing cards in the other room.

I guess I'll just get used to same night/day lays.
 
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Just tell them " I"m not a piece of meat with big feet" "I have to be in a relationship before I put out" It's the same lines they use on us
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The problem I am having right now is that if I don't make a sexual move the first time I meet a girl, she will basically never speak to me again. This is especially true if she approaches me first, which happens quite often.

I can't drag things out like other guys, as in, just chat the first time, flirt a bit over facebook for a couple weeks or months, finally get a number, then sex somewhere down the road.

Like I said, these girls seem to be in a rush to close the deal, then shut the door seemingly forever if it doesn't happen immediately.

In other words, there's no normal sex escalation cycle for me and a girl: it's all or nothing immediately.

I'm a regular horny guy, but I like to chase as well, and I never have the occasion to do that, it seems.
 
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