"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Immediate Attraction

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I tend to attract women immediately and powerfully. It's very easy to have sex with multiple women a month the first time I meet them.

The thing is, sex is not interesting to me when I don't have an emotional bond with the girl.

But I've had girls walk away after they proposition me within a few minutes.

Why are girls so "quick" to get laid these days? It's a great ego boost, but little more than that for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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elvis_p said:
I tend to attract women immediately and powerfully. It's very easy to have sex with multiple women a month the first time I meet them.

The thing is, sex is not interesting to me when I don't have an emotional bond with the girl.

But I've had girls walk away after they proposition me within a few minutes.

Why are girls so "quick" to get laid these days? It's a great ego boost, but little more than that for me.
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Well tell us your secret or are you just irrestably good looking.:rolleyes:
 
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Yeah, I'm physically attractive. Even when I dress down, girls still hit on me.

Some hot chick tried to pick me up at a party recently, while her husband was playing cards in the other room.

I guess I'll just get used to same night/day lays.
 
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Just tell them " I"m not a piece of meat with big feet" "I have to be in a relationship before I put out" It's the same lines they use on us
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The problem I am having right now is that if I don't make a sexual move the first time I meet a girl, she will basically never speak to me again. This is especially true if she approaches me first, which happens quite often.

I can't drag things out like other guys, as in, just chat the first time, flirt a bit over facebook for a couple weeks or months, finally get a number, then sex somewhere down the road.

Like I said, these girls seem to be in a rush to close the deal, then shut the door seemingly forever if it doesn't happen immediately.

In other words, there's no normal sex escalation cycle for me and a girl: it's all or nothing immediately.

I'm a regular horny guy, but I like to chase as well, and I never have the occasion to do that, it seems.
 
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