"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Immediate Attraction

elvis_p

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I tend to attract women immediately and powerfully. It's very easy to have sex with multiple women a month the first time I meet them.

The thing is, sex is not interesting to me when I don't have an emotional bond with the girl.

But I've had girls walk away after they proposition me within a few minutes.

Why are girls so "quick" to get laid these days? It's a great ego boost, but little more than that for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gaspipe

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elvis_p said:
I tend to attract women immediately and powerfully. It's very easy to have sex with multiple women a month the first time I meet them.

The thing is, sex is not interesting to me when I don't have an emotional bond with the girl.

But I've had girls walk away after they proposition me within a few minutes.

Why are girls so "quick" to get laid these days? It's a great ego boost, but little more than that for me.

Well tell us your secret or are you just irrestably good looking.:rolleyes:
 

elvis_p

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Yeah, I'm physically attractive. Even when I dress down, girls still hit on me.

Some hot chick tried to pick me up at a party recently, while her husband was playing cards in the other room.

I guess I'll just get used to same night/day lays.
 

sodbuster

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Just tell them " I"m not a piece of meat with big feet" "I have to be in a relationship before I put out" It's the same lines they use on us
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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elvis_p

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The problem I am having right now is that if I don't make a sexual move the first time I meet a girl, she will basically never speak to me again. This is especially true if she approaches me first, which happens quite often.

I can't drag things out like other guys, as in, just chat the first time, flirt a bit over facebook for a couple weeks or months, finally get a number, then sex somewhere down the road.

Like I said, these girls seem to be in a rush to close the deal, then shut the door seemingly forever if it doesn't happen immediately.

In other words, there's no normal sex escalation cycle for me and a girl: it's all or nothing immediately.

I'm a regular horny guy, but I like to chase as well, and I never have the occasion to do that, it seems.
 
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