"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Immaturity

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I find everyone I know so immature. In one way or another, at least. Even my best friend is starting to tick me off alot! He has major mood swings for no reasons what so ever. Same with other people I know. I try to be optimistic all day long, but man I don't think I've met one person that I completely ..I don't know wat the word is for it...fit together with?

I shouldn't be thinking about getting happiness from other people, I know, but again I've come to a plateau in life where I just don't know where to turn.

I think it's the hormones combined with winter. Cause othertimes I feel happy and I just got back from the Caribbean a week ago feeling amazing.

Blah. Comments?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's the winter. I don't know what it's like where you live, but here, for the moment, there's just dirt and mud and like, poop snow everywhere. I hate winter. The lack of green apparently depresses people. It depresses me.
 

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I often find people immature as well. Particularly people younger then me. Although I bet many people older then me think me to immature.
 

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and now I feel happy again. Haha

Well, I've come to the conclusion that I will continue the path of DJ'ism, however at the same time I'm also continuing to look for that special girl, regardless of my age which does play a key factor however I've always been dating girls older then myself.

Eh, I doubt I'll find someone I'm completely compatible with until University though, as all the girls now are so, eh, immature. Physical depedent relationships with no emotional based backup. Well, mabey some to an extent but not real.

Anyways point being, winter + hormones = wacky feelings. Life throws some pretty random obstacles, but they have nothing on me cause I know what I want out of life.

On the road to success there's always failures! (Me :))
 

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what's wrong with immaturity?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The reason for your winter moods is soemthign i learned in anatomy and physiology. There is a gland near the top of your brain called the pineal gland, which releases melatonin, a hormone that affects; sleep patterns, sexual arousal, and your biological clock. Having too much or too little of this leads to depression. apparently sunlight is what affects how this gland works. The lack of sunlight in winter leads to a shortage of melatonin. I'd either wait till winter is over, or attempt to soak up some sun daily. Then, maybe you will feel differently about your situation. Also, they sell melatonin over the counter, its a sleep aid.
 

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Originally posted by Garbury
The reason for your winter moods is soemthign i learned in anatomy and physiology. There is a gland near the top of your brain called the pineal gland, which releases melatonin, a hormone that affects; sleep patterns, sexual arousal, and your biological clock. Having too much or too little of this leads to depression. apparently sunlight is what affects how this gland works. The lack of sunlight in winter leads to a shortage of melatonin. I'd either wait till winter is over, or attempt to soak up some sun daily. Then, maybe you will feel differently about your situation. Also, they sell melatonin over the counter, its a sleep aid.
First off, the pineal body is of so much more significance than that... you just sound prefusely ignorant.

There is a reason, they refer to as our "Third Eye" -- but I'll leave it at that.

For the thread starter:

You're not anymore mature than them. In fact, you're less mature. Take a step back and realize it is more intelligent, or at least more wise, to let go of your ignorant maturity, and realize that now is the time to be free.

You have one childhood... and it is all a memory.

You do not live your childhood. You do not live your highschool. You only recall back, and remember what it was like.

Don't be dumb. Let loose and have fun, don't keep trying to act mature... you'll fail, anyway.

You're wrong.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
First off, the pineal body is of so much more significance than that... you just sound prefusely ignorant.

There is a reason, they refer to as our "Third Eye" -- but I'll leave it at that.

For the thread starter:

You're not anymore mature than them. In fact, you're less mature. Take a step back and realize it is more intelligent, or at least more wise, to let go of your ignorant maturity, and realize that now is the time to be free.

You have one childhood... and it is all a memory.

You do not live your childhood. You do not live your highschool. You only recall back, and remember what it was like.

Don't be dumb. Let loose and have fun, don't keep trying to act mature... you'll fail, anyway.

You're wrong.
I know what your implying, however I AM living, that's the thing. I can't help feeling happy one day and sad the next. I can make it bearable but I can't change it. There's a difference between those two.

Is this site, considered "not living" ? Your aware of everything your doing when talking to a woman, where as a natural DJ is not because he is just going with what he's always done. Same link to my thing.

Anyways, about the metatolin (sp?)..I've heard about that. I actually got a bulb that immitates sunlight, and it's been working really well! So, I'll just have to bear with it until summer :)
 
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