"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know what it is, just asked a girl out to chill I met the other night via text message. Cute chick, high IL, but the response I got was just a turn off to me. Maybe i'm just in one of those moods tonight...who knows LOL

Me: "Let's get together and do something fun this weekend"
Her: "Okayyyyyyyyy"

Ummm why are you responding like a 14 year old child? "okayyyyy" babe don't do me any favors. I'm tired of these college aged airheads. I'm only in my mid 20's, and i'm finding myself wanting a little better communication from the women I invest my time in.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, I think you got a date with Lil' John.

YEAAAH!
 

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If that's how you're going to be, I'm taking you to Chuck e Cheese.
 

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Fumbduck said:
Ummm why are you responding like a 14 year old child? "okayyyyy" babe don't do me any favors. I'm tired of these college aged airheads. I'm only in my mid 20's, and i'm finding myself wanting a little better communication from the women I invest my time in.
This is your problem you come here and make fun of her when you should be doing that to her!

Young college women 18-21 are best treated like sh****. It might sound mean but it's pretty common knowledge that with the young immature ones being a little more like a jerk/being a little more like a douchebag is the best way to attract and keep them.

You make the mistake of taking them a little too seriously. You can't take something that has air between the ears seriously. Have your fun with them for the short time it will last and move on to the next one. That's as much as you should expect with the young immature college gals.

mid 20's and so on and they change but early 20's and so on they are in their airhead phase still (some never move on it seems).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What Joe Stud & F28 said.

If you had a parrot, would you expect to have stimulating conversations with it? Approach women with the same mindset.

Don't blame them for being airheads or too emotional or irrational, it will only piss you off and waste your energy. It is in their nature to act in such a manner, simply use it to your advantage.
 

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The inherent problem with texting. I don't know this girl but I can't tell if all those Ys mean she's being awkward or she's excited.

Either way if that's the worst of it then it's not a big deal. You know what you're getting into with girls at that age, so if you're not willing to put up with it then move on.
 

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Other scenarios:

Boss: I need you in on Thursday shift, Karen. Thanks
Girl: Confirmed, what time? Thanks

Girlfriend: Hey we're going shooters on Friday, you coming? ly xx
Girl: Yep. :) What time (insert stupid knickname here) ly xx
 

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Sup Fellas...

Yeah i know this isn't a big deal, I know most all girls this age are airheads. It's just i've been meeting a flood of 20-22 year olds recently who all act the SAME.

Treat them like kids..check
Make fun of them...check
Just get it in...check

lol "date w/ lil jon"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I really don't get what your problem is, OP. WTF is so terrible about "okayyyyyyyyyy"?!?! If a girl texted that to me, I'd think of it as a bit weird but then shrug my shoulders. I'd sure as hell not get all worked up over it! Lighten up, dude!
 

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f283000 said:
This is your problem you come here and make fun of her when you should be doing that to her!

Young college women 18-21 are best treated like sh****. It might sound mean but it's pretty common knowledge that with the young immature ones being a little more like a jerk/being a little more like a douchebag is the best way to attract and keep them.

You make the mistake of taking them a little too seriously. You can't take something that has air between the ears seriously. Have your fun with them for the short time it will last and move on to the next one. That's as much as you should expect with the young immature college gals.

mid 20's and so on and they change but early 20's and so on they are in their airhead phase still (some never move on it seems).

This only applies to America. Hell, a 45 year old American woman is less mature than a 17 year old Ukrainian girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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