Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I don't know what it is, just asked a girl out to chill I met the other night via text message. Cute chick, high IL, but the response I got was just a turn off to me. Maybe i'm just in one of those moods tonight...who knows LOL

Me: "Let's get together and do something fun this weekend"
Her: "Okayyyyyyyyy"

Ummm why are you responding like a 14 year old child? "okayyyyy" babe don't do me any favors. I'm tired of these college aged airheads. I'm only in my mid 20's, and i'm finding myself wanting a little better communication from the women I invest my time in.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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loveshogun

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Dude, I think you got a date with Lil' John.

YEAAAH!
 

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If that's how you're going to be, I'm taking you to Chuck e Cheese.
 

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Fumbduck said:
Ummm why are you responding like a 14 year old child? "okayyyyy" babe don't do me any favors. I'm tired of these college aged airheads. I'm only in my mid 20's, and i'm finding myself wanting a little better communication from the women I invest my time in.
This is your problem you come here and make fun of her when you should be doing that to her!

Young college women 18-21 are best treated like sh****. It might sound mean but it's pretty common knowledge that with the young immature ones being a little more like a jerk/being a little more like a douchebag is the best way to attract and keep them.

You make the mistake of taking them a little too seriously. You can't take something that has air between the ears seriously. Have your fun with them for the short time it will last and move on to the next one. That's as much as you should expect with the young immature college gals.

mid 20's and so on and they change but early 20's and so on they are in their airhead phase still (some never move on it seems).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What Joe Stud & F28 said.

If you had a parrot, would you expect to have stimulating conversations with it? Approach women with the same mindset.

Don't blame them for being airheads or too emotional or irrational, it will only piss you off and waste your energy. It is in their nature to act in such a manner, simply use it to your advantage.
 

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The inherent problem with texting. I don't know this girl but I can't tell if all those Ys mean she's being awkward or she's excited.

Either way if that's the worst of it then it's not a big deal. You know what you're getting into with girls at that age, so if you're not willing to put up with it then move on.
 

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Other scenarios:

Boss: I need you in on Thursday shift, Karen. Thanks
Girl: Confirmed, what time? Thanks

Girlfriend: Hey we're going shooters on Friday, you coming? ly xx
Girl: Yep. :) What time (insert stupid knickname here) ly xx
 

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Sup Fellas...

Yeah i know this isn't a big deal, I know most all girls this age are airheads. It's just i've been meeting a flood of 20-22 year olds recently who all act the SAME.

Treat them like kids..check
Make fun of them...check
Just get it in...check

lol "date w/ lil jon"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I really don't get what your problem is, OP. WTF is so terrible about "okayyyyyyyyyy"?!?! If a girl texted that to me, I'd think of it as a bit weird but then shrug my shoulders. I'd sure as hell not get all worked up over it! Lighten up, dude!
 

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f283000 said:
This is your problem you come here and make fun of her when you should be doing that to her!

Young college women 18-21 are best treated like sh****. It might sound mean but it's pretty common knowledge that with the young immature ones being a little more like a jerk/being a little more like a douchebag is the best way to attract and keep them.

You make the mistake of taking them a little too seriously. You can't take something that has air between the ears seriously. Have your fun with them for the short time it will last and move on to the next one. That's as much as you should expect with the young immature college gals.

mid 20's and so on and they change but early 20's and so on they are in their airhead phase still (some never move on it seems).

This only applies to America. Hell, a 45 year old American woman is less mature than a 17 year old Ukrainian girl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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