"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fumbduck

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I don't know what it is, just asked a girl out to chill I met the other night via text message. Cute chick, high IL, but the response I got was just a turn off to me. Maybe i'm just in one of those moods tonight...who knows LOL

Me: "Let's get together and do something fun this weekend"
Her: "Okayyyyyyyyy"

Ummm why are you responding like a 14 year old child? "okayyyyy" babe don't do me any favors. I'm tired of these college aged airheads. I'm only in my mid 20's, and i'm finding myself wanting a little better communication from the women I invest my time in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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loveshogun

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Dude, I think you got a date with Lil' John.

YEAAAH!
 

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If that's how you're going to be, I'm taking you to Chuck e Cheese.
 

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Fumbduck said:
Ummm why are you responding like a 14 year old child? "okayyyyy" babe don't do me any favors. I'm tired of these college aged airheads. I'm only in my mid 20's, and i'm finding myself wanting a little better communication from the women I invest my time in.
This is your problem you come here and make fun of her when you should be doing that to her!

Young college women 18-21 are best treated like sh****. It might sound mean but it's pretty common knowledge that with the young immature ones being a little more like a jerk/being a little more like a douchebag is the best way to attract and keep them.

You make the mistake of taking them a little too seriously. You can't take something that has air between the ears seriously. Have your fun with them for the short time it will last and move on to the next one. That's as much as you should expect with the young immature college gals.

mid 20's and so on and they change but early 20's and so on they are in their airhead phase still (some never move on it seems).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What Joe Stud & F28 said.

If you had a parrot, would you expect to have stimulating conversations with it? Approach women with the same mindset.

Don't blame them for being airheads or too emotional or irrational, it will only piss you off and waste your energy. It is in their nature to act in such a manner, simply use it to your advantage.
 

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The inherent problem with texting. I don't know this girl but I can't tell if all those Ys mean she's being awkward or she's excited.

Either way if that's the worst of it then it's not a big deal. You know what you're getting into with girls at that age, so if you're not willing to put up with it then move on.
 

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Other scenarios:

Boss: I need you in on Thursday shift, Karen. Thanks
Girl: Confirmed, what time? Thanks

Girlfriend: Hey we're going shooters on Friday, you coming? ly xx
Girl: Yep. :) What time (insert stupid knickname here) ly xx
 

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Sup Fellas...

Yeah i know this isn't a big deal, I know most all girls this age are airheads. It's just i've been meeting a flood of 20-22 year olds recently who all act the SAME.

Treat them like kids..check
Make fun of them...check
Just get it in...check

lol "date w/ lil jon"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I really don't get what your problem is, OP. WTF is so terrible about "okayyyyyyyyyy"?!?! If a girl texted that to me, I'd think of it as a bit weird but then shrug my shoulders. I'd sure as hell not get all worked up over it! Lighten up, dude!
 

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f283000 said:
This is your problem you come here and make fun of her when you should be doing that to her!

Young college women 18-21 are best treated like sh****. It might sound mean but it's pretty common knowledge that with the young immature ones being a little more like a jerk/being a little more like a douchebag is the best way to attract and keep them.

You make the mistake of taking them a little too seriously. You can't take something that has air between the ears seriously. Have your fun with them for the short time it will last and move on to the next one. That's as much as you should expect with the young immature college gals.

mid 20's and so on and they change but early 20's and so on they are in their airhead phase still (some never move on it seems).

This only applies to America. Hell, a 45 year old American woman is less mature than a 17 year old Ukrainian girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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