"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i'm was wonder if she liked me or being friendly.

Mizfitgooch

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alright, I've known this girl since her freshman year. she didn't like me because I used to like her older sister. and she made to fact known. sometimes even teasing me about it. then one summer, after her sister graduated, she added me as a friend on facebook and to my surprise, i accepted. i didn't ask her about it because i thought she just wanted to increase her number of friends. then second semester, i saw a little change in attitude, just like most people in my school she calls me by my last name. but we were alone(she spoke first).then ask her to sign my yearbook she was a little hesitant but she signed it. i graduated so i didn't see her. at church however, she called by my first name. she has a unique personality and i've been called that too. i guess i still have competition with some other guys. here is some other information. she had this friend i happen to pay more attention too and i asked her out and the friend un friended me on facebook. those two aren't friends anymore for some reason.

i've seen her last night at the game. so i said hi and she said it back but nothing else.
maybe i've been over-analyzing things.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Mizfitgooch said:
maybe i've been over-analyzing things.
Yeah, you are. Seems like not very much has happened.

Make something happen, or go find another girl. Preferably both at once. Don't be scared, even mistakes pay off for you sometimes.
 
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