"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i'm was wonder if she liked me or being friendly.

Mizfitgooch

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alright, I've known this girl since her freshman year. she didn't like me because I used to like her older sister. and she made to fact known. sometimes even teasing me about it. then one summer, after her sister graduated, she added me as a friend on facebook and to my surprise, i accepted. i didn't ask her about it because i thought she just wanted to increase her number of friends. then second semester, i saw a little change in attitude, just like most people in my school she calls me by my last name. but we were alone(she spoke first).then ask her to sign my yearbook she was a little hesitant but she signed it. i graduated so i didn't see her. at church however, she called by my first name. she has a unique personality and i've been called that too. i guess i still have competition with some other guys. here is some other information. she had this friend i happen to pay more attention too and i asked her out and the friend un friended me on facebook. those two aren't friends anymore for some reason.

i've seen her last night at the game. so i said hi and she said it back but nothing else.
maybe i've been over-analyzing things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mizfitgooch said:
maybe i've been over-analyzing things.
Yeah, you are. Seems like not very much has happened.

Make something happen, or go find another girl. Preferably both at once. Don't be scared, even mistakes pay off for you sometimes.
 
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