"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i'm was wonder if she liked me or being friendly.

Mizfitgooch

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alright, I've known this girl since her freshman year. she didn't like me because I used to like her older sister. and she made to fact known. sometimes even teasing me about it. then one summer, after her sister graduated, she added me as a friend on facebook and to my surprise, i accepted. i didn't ask her about it because i thought she just wanted to increase her number of friends. then second semester, i saw a little change in attitude, just like most people in my school she calls me by my last name. but we were alone(she spoke first).then ask her to sign my yearbook she was a little hesitant but she signed it. i graduated so i didn't see her. at church however, she called by my first name. she has a unique personality and i've been called that too. i guess i still have competition with some other guys. here is some other information. she had this friend i happen to pay more attention too and i asked her out and the friend un friended me on facebook. those two aren't friends anymore for some reason.

i've seen her last night at the game. so i said hi and she said it back but nothing else.
maybe i've been over-analyzing things.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mizfitgooch said:
maybe i've been over-analyzing things.
Yeah, you are. Seems like not very much has happened.

Make something happen, or go find another girl. Preferably both at once. Don't be scared, even mistakes pay off for you sometimes.
 
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