"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i'm very skinny... need help!

Yakovinho

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o..k. so i'm 5"6' and i weight just 112 LBS.

and i wonder how i gain more weihgt?

i play soccer in the school team so its really hard to return the calories that i burned?

so someone has advice for me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nvictor

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Do as they say. I'm seeing some progress with advice from this forum. Also be aware that sometimes it can be genetic


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I have strong muscles because I eat properly, I exercise, and because of you all
I also suggest everybody to make some extra money with the 7 dollar method or Agloco.
 

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I'd say try packing in 3000-3500 calories per day with 200 g protein...work up to these levels of course. Idealy you'll eat as clean as you can, but dont' be afraid to indulge every so often!

How old are you? Whats your athletic history like? Train 3-5 times a week focussing on large compound movements like squat, deadlift, bench, shoulder press, dips, chins, etc... Don't do any cardio :p .. that's the sweet part of bulking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Also be aware that sometimes it can be genetic


Don't let that be excuse as to why you can't achieve this physique or that physique,if you put your time in the rest will follow.
 

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Read Alex's Idiot's Guide to Growth.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=110033

Eat 1.5-2g of protein per lb of your bodyweight, i.e. you're 112lbs, so between 170-225g of protein daily. As you gain weight, you'll need to keep upping your protein intake. Always aim for 1.5-2g/lb :) Read the thread linked above for nutritional info and other general information.

You play a lot of soccer, so there's gonna be problems getting sufficient calories to growth, as well as the impact your soccer training is gonna have on your recovery. You'd probably do well taking in 225g of protein, 3500 calories, get yourself on a 2-day training routine, and adjust diet accordingly depending on whether you're gaining weight or not. I'm suggesting 2 days a week only because alongside your soccer, a third day may fvck your recovery ability completely. Try this routine,

Monday
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Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8
Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12
Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8
Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12
Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Thursday
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Pull-Up 3 sets to failure
Barbell Row 2 x 8
EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10
Squats 2 x 10
Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

(routine written by iron addict)

Fit your training in around soccer.

Feel free to ask any questions you have mate.

-shaun
 

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Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thecurtainfalls said:
Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.
from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldnt
 

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Yakovinho said:
o..k. so i'm 5"6' and i weight just 112 LBS.

and i wonder how i gain more weihgt?
Start lifting. Eat more food. If you really need the calories go to McDonalds. Seriously.

That's borderline anorexic. Quality food is not as important for you as much as FOOD in general. Just eat. Anything.

i play soccer in the school team so its really hard to return the calories that i burned?

so someone has advice for me?

Stop playing soccer for a season until you get back to normal. Don't expect to put on any weight when you run all day.

Otherwise, live with it. You play soccer like a maniac, you get skinny. Fact of life.
 

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dj ben2 said:
from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldnt
If by unhealthy yo mean he'll get some indigestion for a week from his body not being used to it, then yes.

Otherwise you're dead wrong.
 

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thecurtainfalls said:
Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
Kidney stones are caused by mineral deposits in the kidneys. Hence the name 'stone'. Because its like a stone. The mineral deposits form little rocks.

They are not caused by a high protein intake. Guess what they are caused by? (Hint: Minerals)


*BZZZZZT* Wrong answer. Care to try another guess? Or maybe suppostition?

Please state more of your opinions as fact.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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