You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PM me,I started lifting at the same exact height and weight.Yakovinho said:so someone has advice for me?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.thecurtainfalls said:Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldntWarboss Alex said:I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.
Start lifting. Eat more food. If you really need the calories go to McDonalds. Seriously.Yakovinho said:o..k. so i'm 5"6' and i weight just 112 LBS.
and i wonder how i gain more weihgt?
i play soccer in the school team so its really hard to return the calories that i burned?
so someone has advice for me?
If by unhealthy yo mean he'll get some indigestion for a week from his body not being used to it, then yes.dj ben2 said:from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldnt
Kidney stones are caused by mineral deposits in the kidneys. Hence the name 'stone'. Because its like a stone. The mineral deposits form little rocks.thecurtainfalls said:Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.