"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i'm very skinny... need help!

Yakovinho

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o..k. so i'm 5"6' and i weight just 112 LBS.

and i wonder how i gain more weihgt?

i play soccer in the school team so its really hard to return the calories that i burned?

so someone has advice for me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nvictor

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Do as they say. I'm seeing some progress with advice from this forum. Also be aware that sometimes it can be genetic


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I have strong muscles because I eat properly, I exercise, and because of you all
I also suggest everybody to make some extra money with the 7 dollar method or Agloco.
 

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I'd say try packing in 3000-3500 calories per day with 200 g protein...work up to these levels of course. Idealy you'll eat as clean as you can, but dont' be afraid to indulge every so often!

How old are you? Whats your athletic history like? Train 3-5 times a week focussing on large compound movements like squat, deadlift, bench, shoulder press, dips, chins, etc... Don't do any cardio :p .. that's the sweet part of bulking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also be aware that sometimes it can be genetic


Don't let that be excuse as to why you can't achieve this physique or that physique,if you put your time in the rest will follow.
 

shaunuk

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Read Alex's Idiot's Guide to Growth.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=110033

Eat 1.5-2g of protein per lb of your bodyweight, i.e. you're 112lbs, so between 170-225g of protein daily. As you gain weight, you'll need to keep upping your protein intake. Always aim for 1.5-2g/lb :) Read the thread linked above for nutritional info and other general information.

You play a lot of soccer, so there's gonna be problems getting sufficient calories to growth, as well as the impact your soccer training is gonna have on your recovery. You'd probably do well taking in 225g of protein, 3500 calories, get yourself on a 2-day training routine, and adjust diet accordingly depending on whether you're gaining weight or not. I'm suggesting 2 days a week only because alongside your soccer, a third day may fvck your recovery ability completely. Try this routine,

Monday
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Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8
Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12
Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8
Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12
Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Thursday
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Pull-Up 3 sets to failure
Barbell Row 2 x 8
EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10
Squats 2 x 10
Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

(routine written by iron addict)

Fit your training in around soccer.

Feel free to ask any questions you have mate.

-shaun
 

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Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thecurtainfalls said:
Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.
from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldnt
 

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Yakovinho said:
o..k. so i'm 5"6' and i weight just 112 LBS.

and i wonder how i gain more weihgt?
Start lifting. Eat more food. If you really need the calories go to McDonalds. Seriously.

That's borderline anorexic. Quality food is not as important for you as much as FOOD in general. Just eat. Anything.

i play soccer in the school team so its really hard to return the calories that i burned?

so someone has advice for me?

Stop playing soccer for a season until you get back to normal. Don't expect to put on any weight when you run all day.

Otherwise, live with it. You play soccer like a maniac, you get skinny. Fact of life.
 

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dj ben2 said:
from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldnt
If by unhealthy yo mean he'll get some indigestion for a week from his body not being used to it, then yes.

Otherwise you're dead wrong.
 

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thecurtainfalls said:
Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
Kidney stones are caused by mineral deposits in the kidneys. Hence the name 'stone'. Because its like a stone. The mineral deposits form little rocks.

They are not caused by a high protein intake. Guess what they are caused by? (Hint: Minerals)


*BZZZZZT* Wrong answer. Care to try another guess? Or maybe suppostition?

Please state more of your opinions as fact.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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