She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PM me,I started lifting at the same exact height and weight.Yakovinho said:so someone has advice for me?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.thecurtainfalls said:Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldntWarboss Alex said:I usually hate to be 'scientific' but please provide some evidence that a high protein intake is dangerous for an active, properly hydrated individual who weight trains. Or failing that, tell me one person you know who's had any sort of health problem related to a high protein intake.
Start lifting. Eat more food. If you really need the calories go to McDonalds. Seriously.Yakovinho said:o..k. so i'm 5"6' and i weight just 112 LBS.
and i wonder how i gain more weihgt?
i play soccer in the school team so its really hard to return the calories that i burned?
so someone has advice for me?
If by unhealthy yo mean he'll get some indigestion for a week from his body not being used to it, then yes.dj ben2 said:from the way i read it hew was saying that for a skinny fella who doesnt usually eat so much protein jumping straight into it would be unhelathy but working up to it wouldnt
Kidney stones are caused by mineral deposits in the kidneys. Hence the name 'stone'. Because its like a stone. The mineral deposits form little rocks.thecurtainfalls said:Be careful with the 1.5/2g of protein per lb of bodyweight rule, this can be EXTREMELY unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint, especially if you don't work up to it. If you suddenly start pouring that much protein into your relatively small body, you risk kidney stones and other health complications. I'd say that 100-120g per day should give you plenty to work with.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.