Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm trying to date my co-worker

Ivan M

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I work at a grocery store. I like a girl that works with me. After she broke up with her boyfriend, who also works up there, I decided to ask her out. She gave me the I just want to be friends speech. She was cool with just going out with friends as long as it wasn't a date. I recently found the so suave site and decided to try some techniques on her. Since I've tried this she has begun spending less time with her ex and will even help me with my work. I use to have to approach her first. She seems more interested in telling me about herself. She doesn't care about me touching her and will touch me back (non sexual). I think I'm making a good attempt, but I'm not sure what I should do next. Does any one have any advice that can help me become more than a friend?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AmIAFC

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Talk to other females at your work -- even if they are ugly or fat -- and spend less time with her. That's how I got this one chic at work (wish I hadn't, though).
 

Senor Koketo

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Work relationships...

Don't dip your pen in the company ink...

Don't fish off the company dock...

I'm speaking from experience.

But is you still choose to, then the advice AmIAFC has given works well.

Especially if she's ugly or fat ... this will portray a man who is not shallow (even if you are).
 
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