I work at a grocery store. I like a girl that works with me. After she broke up with her boyfriend, who also works up there, I decided to ask her out. She gave me the I just want to be friends speech. She was cool with just going out with friends as long as it wasn't a date. I recently found the so suave site and decided to try some techniques on her. Since I've tried this she has begun spending less time with her ex and will even help me with my work. I use to have to approach her first. She seems more interested in telling me about herself. She doesn't care about me touching her and will touch me back (non sexual). I think I'm making a good attempt, but I'm not sure what I should do next. Does any one have any advice that can help me become more than a friend?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm trying to date my co-worker
- Thread starter Ivan M
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