"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm trying to date my co-worker

Ivan M

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I work at a grocery store. I like a girl that works with me. After she broke up with her boyfriend, who also works up there, I decided to ask her out. She gave me the I just want to be friends speech. She was cool with just going out with friends as long as it wasn't a date. I recently found the so suave site and decided to try some techniques on her. Since I've tried this she has begun spending less time with her ex and will even help me with my work. I use to have to approach her first. She seems more interested in telling me about herself. She doesn't care about me touching her and will touch me back (non sexual). I think I'm making a good attempt, but I'm not sure what I should do next. Does any one have any advice that can help me become more than a friend?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AmIAFC

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Talk to other females at your work -- even if they are ugly or fat -- and spend less time with her. That's how I got this one chic at work (wish I hadn't, though).
 

Senor Koketo

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Work relationships...

Don't dip your pen in the company ink...

Don't fish off the company dock...

I'm speaking from experience.

But is you still choose to, then the advice AmIAFC has given works well.

Especially if she's ugly or fat ... this will portray a man who is not shallow (even if you are).
 
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