"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm trying to bulk up but all of the weight is going to my belly, HELP!

Demystify

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And yes, I do work out constantly and I eat really healthy. So I'm trying to bulk up but I'm becoming a stick with a gut rather than a buff all around non-stick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mikeyb

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What's your diet like? If it's all going to your gut there's a reason and there's a 99% chance it's to do with diet. Don't just say "I eat healthy", write a breakdown of your daily meals.

You say you're still a stick so post your workout routine too with your big numbers (squat, deadlift, bench) and how long you've been at this routine.
 

RMM

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As mikey said, we need to see your diet and your workout, otherwise it's literally impossible to figure out what you're doing wrong.
 

CaptainJ

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Demystify said:
bump, anyone?
Are you blind? Someone just answered you. We need more info before we can comment, don't just expect us to magically know your stats then pull the magic formula out of our asses.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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waynejohn

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Without you providing more information:

1) You need to do real strength training.
2) If you find yourself getting fat, then whatever you eat cut down your daily calorie intake 150-200 calories. Check your progress after 2-3 weeks.
3) Eat lots of protein. For the rest of the calories, find out what works best for you in terms of fat/carb ratio.

It's freakin simple.
 
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