"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im Trapped Ahhhh

theNEWDJ

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soo its the summer and i should be getting chicks all the time but 2 of the main chicks i was after aren't coming through. I figure its time to meet new chicks from other schools. I am damn good at this cause i have no fear and i dont care if i get rejected i will approach any HB. The problem is i dont drive and the only close place where i could pick up chicks is Wal-Mart hahaha, my best friend drives but he has no skills with chicks at all, and he wont go and pick up chicks with me at the mall or anything, so what do i do? i cant just give up for the summer and wait till i get my liscence in November, i guess ill keep trying my other buddys but god damn im getting restless should i tell my friend about sosuave and this stuff?

damn im rambling but i need help dudes
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac

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well I just moved and can't pick up chicks so I just chat online. man I can't wait till school starts. Maybe you should just continue working the school till you get everygirl because I think that might be possible.
 

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Social networking...youre new best friend.
 

theNEWDJ

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whats social networking?
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
whats social networking?
Your friends have other friends ,who have other friends, who know tons of hot girls ,who know more hot girls...in conclusion...talk to everyone you meet.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dannowillbookem

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dont take the bus it makes u look average and definetly not something the alpha males do.
 
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it doesnt matter if u take the bus or not acualy it make u seem more clasic with a sense of style...but takin the bus or not that wont affect ur game any ...so if u need 2 take tha bus
 

theNEWDJ

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ok i take the bus and try to pick up chicks alone?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dannowillbookem

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lol my school must be very transportationist (get it racist sexist transporationist? hehe)

really kids who ride the bus are considered losers. oh well thats what u get for attending the preppy school.

plus walking everywhere (or ecspecially doing it alone) is frowned upon. god i would be so much cooler at other schools! lol
 
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