"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im Trapped Ahhhh

theNEWDJ

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soo its the summer and i should be getting chicks all the time but 2 of the main chicks i was after aren't coming through. I figure its time to meet new chicks from other schools. I am damn good at this cause i have no fear and i dont care if i get rejected i will approach any HB. The problem is i dont drive and the only close place where i could pick up chicks is Wal-Mart hahaha, my best friend drives but he has no skills with chicks at all, and he wont go and pick up chicks with me at the mall or anything, so what do i do? i cant just give up for the summer and wait till i get my liscence in November, i guess ill keep trying my other buddys but god damn im getting restless should i tell my friend about sosuave and this stuff?

damn im rambling but i need help dudes
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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08aisaac

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well I just moved and can't pick up chicks so I just chat online. man I can't wait till school starts. Maybe you should just continue working the school till you get everygirl because I think that might be possible.
 

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Social networking...youre new best friend.
 

theNEWDJ

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whats social networking?
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
whats social networking?
Your friends have other friends ,who have other friends, who know tons of hot girls ,who know more hot girls...in conclusion...talk to everyone you meet.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dannowillbookem

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dont take the bus it makes u look average and definetly not something the alpha males do.
 
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it doesnt matter if u take the bus or not acualy it make u seem more clasic with a sense of style...but takin the bus or not that wont affect ur game any ...so if u need 2 take tha bus
 

theNEWDJ

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ok i take the bus and try to pick up chicks alone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannowillbookem

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lol my school must be very transportationist (get it racist sexist transporationist? hehe)

really kids who ride the bus are considered losers. oh well thats what u get for attending the preppy school.

plus walking everywhere (or ecspecially doing it alone) is frowned upon. god i would be so much cooler at other schools! lol
 
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