I'm too serious?

[Gan]

I'm currently seeing a girl who has been crushing on me for a while now. Very high-interest. I invited her over for a night a few days ago. I had her laughing all night (a lot of teasing), a lot of kino happened, although no sexy time. Didn't go for the kiss either. We've been messaging since and I asked her if she wanted to come over again tomorrow night, to which she said yes. We start messaging some more and she mentions that I'm serious most of the time, despite what happened that night.
To be fair, I do speak in a neutral tone, yet she finds me very funny. She knows I'm cold too but it doesn't seem to bother her. I'm very confused to what she meant by that. I plan on making a move on her when she stays over, but I can't help but wonder if she'll eventually get bored. I'm not worried about losing her, I'm trying to improve my game. So, what are some things I could do to not look so rigid?

 

[marmel75]

I'm currently seeing a girl who has been crushing on me for a while now. Very high-interest. I invited her over for a night a few days ago. I had her laughing all night (a lot of teasing), a lot of kino happened, although no sexy time. Didn't go for the kiss either. We've been messaging since and I asked her if she wanted to come over again tomorrow night, to which she said yes. We start messaging some more and she mentions that I'm serious most of the time, despite what happened that night.
To be fair, I do speak in a neutral tone, yet she finds me very funny. She knows I'm cold too but it doesn't seem to bother her. I'm very confused to what she meant by that. I plan on making a move on her when she stays over, but I can't help but wonder if she'll eventually get bored. I'm not worried about losing her, I'm trying to improve my game. So, what are some things I could do to not look so rigid?

Know how to make sure she gets bored?

Invite her over and don't try and escalate. Only can do that so many times before she just figures you are too scared to make a move and moves on.

Stop pondering what might happen at some random future time and go for what you want in the present time.

 

[Gan]

Know how to make sure she gets bored?

Invite her over and don't try and escalate. Only can do that so many times before she just figures you are too scared to make a move and moves on.

Stop pondering what might happen at some random future time and go for what you want in the present time.

I know that much, I want to know how one can look friendlier while being cold? I can see how my serious tone could scare some people away lol.

 

[marmel75]

I know that much, I want to know how one can look friendlier while being cold? I can see how my serious tone could scare some people away lol.

Being cold how? By being too serious?

Find several interesting topics of conversation and then use those as "go to's" when you need something...

Here are a few I like:

-What's your favorite flavor of ice cream?(google what your favorite ice cream flavor says about you---some psychological profile stuff) and then when they answer let them know what it says about them...women LOVE that sh!t
-What animal would you describe yourself as?
-If you could go anywhere in the world and money was no object where would you go?
etc,
etc,
etc,

Google interesting date topics and find a couple more you like that are interesting/fun and keep them in your back pocket for when you think you are being boring or cold...