"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm too good... for my own good

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Mr. Debonaire

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I have a problem my fellow DJ's. I met this girl at a party. Using the supremo skills of a DJ I now have this girl hanging off me. However, I afterwards found out she was with a friend of mine from out of town. she dumped him for me, and now i have the moral issue of a lifetime. I like her, but this guy is a good friend as well. suggestions would be appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ah yes... this brings back memories...

don't go after her... i went after mine and almost fvcked up my friendship wid my best friend...

genuine best friends are hard to find... dont make the mistake by going after this girl... there are others out there...

if you do somehow go after her... make sure urr mate knows urr intentions, seems stupid but it's better your friend finds out now from you than later off someone else...
 
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Next the girl, save your friendship...if you're really as good as you say, you'll be able to find a new chick easily enough.
 
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Depends on if he is a true friend or not. Ive said this plenty of time but the word "friend" gets thrown around way too loosely. If you wouldnt take a bullet for this guy then fucc the girl and dont worry about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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