"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm too good... for my own good

Mr. Debonaire

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I have a problem my fellow DJ's. I met this girl at a party. Using the supremo skills of a DJ I now have this girl hanging off me. However, I afterwards found out she was with a friend of mine from out of town. she dumped him for me, and now i have the moral issue of a lifetime. I like her, but this guy is a good friend as well. suggestions would be appreciated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nightspark

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Ah yes... this brings back memories...

don't go after her... i went after mine and almost fvcked up my friendship wid my best friend...

genuine best friends are hard to find... dont make the mistake by going after this girl... there are others out there...

if you do somehow go after her... make sure urr mate knows urr intentions, seems stupid but it's better your friend finds out now from you than later off someone else...
 

blienk

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Next the girl, save your friendship...if you're really as good as you say, you'll be able to find a new chick easily enough.
 

Julian

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Depends on if he is a true friend or not. Ive said this plenty of time but the word "friend" gets thrown around way too loosely. If you wouldnt take a bullet for this guy then fucc the girl and dont worry about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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