"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alright so I got this girl on AIM and I'm really really itching to just let her know how I feel about her but I don't know how to say it or what to say. I dont care if it is sounding AFC, thing is I havent seen this girl since about December and we clicked well but now its been two months and I think that if I'm gonna make a move it should be through AIM since thats my only resource. what do you guys think? If I get a positive reaction that would be cool but if I get blown off by her, thats ok too!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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first, you are asking advice about a girl you met over aim. stop being a goddamn afc, get out in the real world and sarge.

second. you don't know where she lives or her phone number and probably her real name, right? so there is not a damn thing you can do til she logs on again.
 

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actually you're dead wrong. We met in person a few months back. I got her number once and I lost it. my only form of communication is through AIM and when she comes around to hang out through her friend
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I dont talk to her on AIM very often either...i
 

frisco

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forget about her cause you already lost man.
 

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HArry_balZonYa said:
actually you're dead wrong. We met in person a few months back. I got her number once and I lost it. my only form of communication is through AIM and when she comes around to hang out through her friend
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I dont talk to her on AIM very often either...i
bad move on ur part for losing the number. it has been 2 months u say? well if u want something to happen u better make a move quick, cuz she might have forgotten about u by now.

i would let it go tho. it's been to long, and the only thing u have too contact her is AIM. which sucks because not only is it indirect, u have to sit and wait for her to log on again, which could be a very long time. go game some other chicks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how about you just tell her you lost her phone number, ask for it, then find out when you can see each other again and forget her until then. you stand to gain nothing by telling a girl how you feel about her.

"make a move through AIM" .. classic
 
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