"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm tired of wiating t see her again to mack

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Alright so I got this girl on AIM and I'm really really itching to just let her know how I feel about her but I don't know how to say it or what to say. I dont care if it is sounding AFC, thing is I havent seen this girl since about December and we clicked well but now its been two months and I think that if I'm gonna make a move it should be through AIM since thats my only resource. what do you guys think? If I get a positive reaction that would be cool but if I get blown off by her, thats ok too!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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first, you are asking advice about a girl you met over aim. stop being a goddamn afc, get out in the real world and sarge.

second. you don't know where she lives or her phone number and probably her real name, right? so there is not a damn thing you can do til she logs on again.
 
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actually you're dead wrong. We met in person a few months back. I got her number once and I lost it. my only form of communication is through AIM and when she comes around to hang out through her friend
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I dont talk to her on AIM very often either...i
 
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forget about her cause you already lost man.
 
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HArry_balZonYa said:
actually you're dead wrong. We met in person a few months back. I got her number once and I lost it. my only form of communication is through AIM and when she comes around to hang out through her friend
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I dont talk to her on AIM very often either...i
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bad move on ur part for losing the number. it has been 2 months u say? well if u want something to happen u better make a move quick, cuz she might have forgotten about u by now.

i would let it go tho. it's been to long, and the only thing u have too contact her is AIM. which sucks because not only is it indirect, u have to sit and wait for her to log on again, which could be a very long time. go game some other chicks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how about you just tell her you lost her phone number, ask for it, then find out when you can see each other again and forget her until then. you stand to gain nothing by telling a girl how you feel about her.

"make a move through AIM" .. classic
 
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