Most of you guys may think I'm new but no, I'm not new. I'm one of those losers you guys talk about who hover the site but make no effort to apply what he has learned. Though, reading this information has brought me a long way. I'm can pretend to be confident but I'm not really. I can talk to any random girl on the street but I can't seem to ask for a phone number. I have had one actuall girlfriend my whole life I'm now 19 and in college. I have blown it with four girls already because I had paused and some other guy came in and took my ****. In fact that seems to be my only problem I mean once I get a relationship estbailish I can play the DJ part right. But it's getting that contact that I suck. It is all because I'm afriad and I'm tired of being afraid damn it. But it's hard, I can say that I'm tired of fear all damn week but when the moment comes to prove myself the fear takes me, but I never do anything. Any of you guys got any adivce on buidling confidence or just stop being ****ing afriad I'm sick of it. I have lost so many girls I've could of had by just being a *****
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I'm Tired of Being Afraid!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PigAdlemPimp
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Why be affraid, hot babes are not as strong as lions, they are weaker than you and they love to be fvcked, be the prize, approach hot babes, be sexual, don't ask them for their phone numbers, be a real man, lead them into an alley way or take them home from your meeting location, then fvck them, how frightening can this be. 
Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
I use something similar to Loompa...
I remind myself that approaching women is not in the category of "getting eaten by lions".. I'll also consider the best and worst that can happen. The worst that can happen is that she blows me out... Sounds horrible? Wait, break that down. That means possible embarrassment. Break that down. Embarrassment means what.. I'm afraid someone will tease or taunt me or otherwise disown me? That's really exaggerating things.. If you ask people about embarrassment, that's what it often ends to be. You may get a different result when you break this down. Point is, look at what's behind your fear, and usually it's not this big bad boogey man that your fear says it is. That woman can only say no.. I've NEVER had someone else make fun of it.
I remind myself that approaching women is not in the category of "getting eaten by lions".. I'll also consider the best and worst that can happen. The worst that can happen is that she blows me out... Sounds horrible? Wait, break that down. That means possible embarrassment. Break that down. Embarrassment means what.. I'm afraid someone will tease or taunt me or otherwise disown me? That's really exaggerating things.. If you ask people about embarrassment, that's what it often ends to be. You may get a different result when you break this down. Point is, look at what's behind your fear, and usually it's not this big bad boogey man that your fear says it is. That woman can only say no.. I've NEVER had someone else make fun of it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
just dont be scared, she dont even no u, 3 sec rule,u c a target, u go for it, u get the number, u go out.
U stop when u find a real girl.
U stop when u find a real girl.
thanks you all
Thanks you all I will apply this and won't lose another girl because of my hestation again. I swear it upon the blood that follows through my viens. I'm so pissed at myself yet motivated to not let this happen again. I've lost my last girl to this ****
Thanks you all I will apply this and won't lose another girl because of my hestation again. I swear it upon the blood that follows through my viens. I'm so pissed at myself yet motivated to not let this happen again. I've lost my last girl to this ****
just go for it man, she cant whoop u. it's not like she'll kill u if u get rejected. it may sting alittle, but u'll get over it soon enough, maybe even seconds after it happens. remember, for ever girl out there that says no, there r some that will say yes. find the yes's. the no's aint worth sh!t and aint for u anyway. u get confidence from experience.Tookie said:
rsxtreme
Don Juan
remember, the show must go on. so if you get rejected go on to another.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.