"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm the biggest piece of fail
- Thread starter Zippy
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There are many types of goals my friend. Long term goals, short term goals and medium term goals. How many eighteen year old game developers are there? Not many. Does it mean it can't be done? Nope. But typically this is a long term goal. If you start out making mods for existing game, youre allready making proggress.Zippy said:My goals eh..? Becoming a Game Developer at 18 is extremely hard, but what the hell.
For me, being financially independent is a long term goal. It mingth take ten to fifteen years to do it. And loosing 50 lbs was a short term goal. That took me something over six months - just to put things in perspective.
For you, I wouldn't hang so much around sosuave. I would go deeper into developing yourself. http://www.stevepavlina.com/ is a good place to start.
LadiesMan2117
Don Juan
I had it pretty bad man. Introverted, a loner, short, skinny, no hobbies, etc. It all broke down when one of my closest friends ASKED her to winter formal and she said yes. She said no to me for Junior Prom. On top of that, my parents booked plane tickets to asia and I had to leave during winter break. I was going out of the country in one week. The girl I loved for 2-3 years just said yes to one of my pals on a DATE(something I dreamed about everyday/while Ill be out of the country). I literally wanted to kill myself. I quit Cross Country(my only outlet from my depression at that point). Attempted suicides in my car. I never talked out to anyone. Kept everything inside. I DIED inside.
I'm telling you man. You GOT to get out of the mindset. What helped me out of it? Going to college. A fresh new start. I can start all over again!!! The next thing that helped me out was my outlet. I went to the Gym like mad. After running into this site, my life really got better. Sure Im still a virgin, but I had one f-close, and two gfs since then. You can do it man.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Be proud of yourself.