"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm the biggest piece of fail
- Thread starter Zippy
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
There are many types of goals my friend. Long term goals, short term goals and medium term goals. How many eighteen year old game developers are there? Not many. Does it mean it can't be done? Nope. But typically this is a long term goal. If you start out making mods for existing game, youre allready making proggress.Zippy said:My goals eh..? Becoming a Game Developer at 18 is extremely hard, but what the hell.
For me, being financially independent is a long term goal. It mingth take ten to fifteen years to do it. And loosing 50 lbs was a short term goal. That took me something over six months - just to put things in perspective.
For you, I wouldn't hang so much around sosuave. I would go deeper into developing yourself. http://www.stevepavlina.com/ is a good place to start.
LadiesMan2117
Don Juan
I had it pretty bad man. Introverted, a loner, short, skinny, no hobbies, etc. It all broke down when one of my closest friends ASKED her to winter formal and she said yes. She said no to me for Junior Prom. On top of that, my parents booked plane tickets to asia and I had to leave during winter break. I was going out of the country in one week. The girl I loved for 2-3 years just said yes to one of my pals on a DATE(something I dreamed about everyday/while Ill be out of the country). I literally wanted to kill myself. I quit Cross Country(my only outlet from my depression at that point). Attempted suicides in my car. I never talked out to anyone. Kept everything inside. I DIED inside.
I'm telling you man. You GOT to get out of the mindset. What helped me out of it? Going to college. A fresh new start. I can start all over again!!! The next thing that helped me out was my outlet. I went to the Gym like mad. After running into this site, my life really got better. Sure Im still a virgin, but I had one f-close, and two gfs since then. You can do it man.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Be proud of yourself.