"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im telling her I want sex

playboy77

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first of all, fukk you all for not replying to my last message.

okay now that I got that out the way.

I called the girl back, she answered then hung up on me. I called back she didn't answer. I was being fake, talking a lot of bullshet, talking too much.

I really want to sleep with this girl. she looks like a porn star... her tits and ass have overwhelmed me with desire, border line obsession so Imm gonna call her, she'll not answer, then Im gonna leave her a message: "I think you have nice tits and ass and want to sleep with you. I don't want anything else, I just want sex. No disrespect. "

what do I have to lose? she's already not answering my calls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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romangod

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playboy77 said:
what do I have to lose? she's already not answering my calls.

You could lose your dignity and self-respect. However, it appears you don't have much to begin with.

On the bright side, you could gain a restraining order.


Cheers!
 

prairiedog24

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Gotta be a troll. If not, lets just pretend it is anyway for our own sanity.
 

SandHawk

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What's up with all the AFCs who didn't read the DJ bible and then proceed to creep out girls?

I strongly you do it and post the result.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ease

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well at least you got some replies.
 
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