"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im telling her I want sex

playboy77

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first of all, fukk you all for not replying to my last message.

okay now that I got that out the way.

I called the girl back, she answered then hung up on me. I called back she didn't answer. I was being fake, talking a lot of bullshet, talking too much.

I really want to sleep with this girl. she looks like a porn star... her tits and ass have overwhelmed me with desire, border line obsession so Imm gonna call her, she'll not answer, then Im gonna leave her a message: "I think you have nice tits and ass and want to sleep with you. I don't want anything else, I just want sex. No disrespect. "

what do I have to lose? she's already not answering my calls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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romangod

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playboy77 said:
what do I have to lose? she's already not answering my calls.

You could lose your dignity and self-respect. However, it appears you don't have much to begin with.

On the bright side, you could gain a restraining order.


Cheers!
 

prairiedog24

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Gotta be a troll. If not, lets just pretend it is anyway for our own sanity.
 

SandHawk

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What's up with all the AFCs who didn't read the DJ bible and then proceed to creep out girls?

I strongly you do it and post the result.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ease

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well at least you got some replies.
 
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