"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im such an ass!

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So ive been chatting to this gal online for a couple or weeks or so, seen her on webcam shes hb6/7 but great tits! Shes seen me on webcam and stuff, we live pretty close but not walking distance and neither of us drive, shes 15 im 19!

Yesterday she says to me! "Come to mine tomorrow and get drunk with meeee"

What more of a sign do i need? She has the drink aswell! I dont need to spend any money! Only on getting there!

But yet im scared that i look uglier in real life than on cam! And im too scared to go! Probably gonna cancel on her, saying something like i have my family coming round, but im such an ass for doing this!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by PooMan
So ive been chatting to this gal online for a couple or weeks or so, seen her on webcam shes hb6/7 but great tits! Shes seen me on webcam and stuff, we live pretty close but not walking distance and neither of us drive, shes 15 im 19!

Yesterday she says to me! "Come to mine tomorrow and get drunk with meeee"

What more of a sign do i need? She has the drink aswell! I dont need to spend any money! Only on getting there!

But yet im scared that i look uglier in real life than on cam! And im too scared to go! Probably gonna cancel on her, saying something like i have my family coming round, but im such an ass for doing this!
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1) Are you sure she's a 6/7 and not just showing you her best parts on the webcam?? :nervous:

2) What's "mine"? Her house? Good! Her town/local bar/club? Bad!

3) Get her to buy the liquor. That way if she's not into you, or you're not into her, you at least get some free drinks outta the deal.

4) Don't drink and drive. ;) Have fun!
 
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Sorry, but a 19 year old guy and a 15 year old girl is just sad. Why not try to include your sister in it as well?
 
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wat u doing with a 15 year old kid. my young cousin who is 17 dosnt even mess with 15 year old kids.
 
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I think a 15 y/o is a felony in every state. You would be a convicted sex offender. You might be on a state registry or web site or have to register as a sex offender wherever you live for a long time, possibly forever. This is in addition to being a convicted felon - to give you an idea of the job prospects of an ex-con, Hardee's won't hire one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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as said u are a PEEEERRRRVV and not the good kind either....

stop trying to get aid so much that you resort to becoming a pedofile....

she is prob even younger than that....
tell her to stop flirting with older guys and u should start checking out chicks your age min 17 year olds not younger then that...

but hey if u are a stupid retard that wants to get as'sfu'cked in jail by a huge niggah called Pilediver or sumthing then go to her house and try to have sex with her.... its your life , i dont give a **** ....
 
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Im such an ass!

Yes you are. But, with a name like pooman what did you expect?
 
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If a 19 year old was chasing after my daughter when she was 15 he'd be picking a cap out of his ass...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I hope the cops catch you, I am 18 and dont even mess with 15 year old girls.
 
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Have fun in jail you sad freak?
 
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you need to make sure you arent going to get in trouble for seeing someone that young before you even go meet her.
 
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the law allows as young as 14 depending on the state. if it's legal, do it. ignore the haters.
 
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