You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Below you? to fight for being disrespected is "below" you? you're funny.Originally posted by SynapsyS
But, some guy being a showoff to his mates? Not worth my time worrying about. Sure, some little things are important, but this **** is so far below me.
Anyway, carry on with your fighting tactics guys
Syn.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If showing a bit of self control and not flipping out and destroying someone is a bad thing, then ok, you have a pointOriginally posted by DJ4Real
Below you? to fight for being disrespected is "below" you? you're funny.
good luck
You equate being punked and having self control with one an other. They are different, friend.Originally posted by SynapsyS
If showing a bit of self control and not flipping out and destroying someone is a bad thing, then ok, you have a point
Fair enough.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah, reading it again, you're probably right. There's one guy who went to my school who sounds just like that guy. He just delighted in putting everyone down, and because no-one would stand up to him, he continued on.