You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Below you? to fight for being disrespected is "below" you? you're funny.Originally posted by SynapsyS
But, some guy being a showoff to his mates? Not worth my time worrying about. Sure, some little things are important, but this **** is so far below me.
Anyway, carry on with your fighting tactics guys
Syn.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If showing a bit of self control and not flipping out and destroying someone is a bad thing, then ok, you have a pointOriginally posted by DJ4Real
Below you? to fight for being disrespected is "below" you? you're funny.
good luck
You equate being punked and having self control with one an other. They are different, friend.Originally posted by SynapsyS
If showing a bit of self control and not flipping out and destroying someone is a bad thing, then ok, you have a point
Fair enough.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah, reading it again, you're probably right. There's one guy who went to my school who sounds just like that guy. He just delighted in putting everyone down, and because no-one would stand up to him, he continued on.