Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

I'm starting to get a little sick of the contradiction between reacting making you a ***** and not reacting making you a *****.

Veréngárda

Don Juan
Joined
May 1, 2022
Messages
90
Reaction score
20
Age
25
Originally.. this question (because it is basically a question) was going into "The Mature Man." But it seems to me that most older men "talk" about having stoicism while actually having exactly zero of it themselves so **** that.

The thread title should explain itself. If someone doesn't react to opposition, they're submissive because they're letting people walk all over them. If they do, they're submissive because they gave someone else power.

I submissive.. you submissive.. he, we.. submissive.

This is like our equivalent of slut-shaming. ****ed either way.

Where's the way out? Hm?
 

2Rocky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2016
Messages
2,203
Reaction score
2,383
Age
48


Being proactive is a posture you take towards the world. It requires an individual to accept responsibility for his situation (no matter how dire) and take the initiative to make things better. Instead of letting their conditions and circumstances be the driving force of their decisions, proactive people allow their values to determine the choices they make. Proactive people act rather than being acted upon.

Proactive people play the ball before it plays them.

Even when circumstances limit choices, a proactive person will find where he can still exercise his agency.
 

Warning!

Do not subscribe to The SoSuave Newsletter unless you are already a chick magnet!

The information in each issue of The SoSuave Newsletter is too powerful for most guys to handle. If you are an ordinary guy, it is not for you. It is meant for the elite few. Not the unwashed masses.

If you know you can handle it...

If you already have girls calling you at all hours of the day and night, showing up at your door, throwing themselves at you everywhere you go...

Then sign up below.

But if you're just an average Joe, an ordinary guy, no one special – then skip this. It is not for you.

Kotaix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2019
Messages
1,890
Reaction score
2,442
Age
44
There isn't a contradiction. Being obsessed with what other people think of you and your behavior is pointless. There will always be haters.

If you react too much to things that don't deserve a reaction, you're trash. If you don't react when people take advantage of you, you're a pvssy.

The way out is to have sound moral principle and live by it.
 

BillyPilgrim

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 9, 2021
Messages
1,084
Reaction score
903
Age
50
Originally.. this question (because it is basically a question) was going into "The Mature Man." But it seems to me that most older men "talk" about having stoicism while actually having exactly zero of it themselves so **** that.

The thread title should explain itself. If someone doesn't react to opposition, they're submissive because they're letting people walk all over them. If they do, they're submissive because they gave someone else power.

I submissive.. you submissive.. he, we.. submissive.

This is like our equivalent of slut-shaming. ****ed either way.

Where's the way out? Hm?
It's more reacting subtly when people give you sh1t and being generally, but not absolutely, non-reactive. You then pick and choose when to react aggressively.
 
Top