“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm starting to experiment with girls, but where should I do it at?

opentoadvice

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whats up yall? I'm starting to talk with girls, figuring what works, what doesn't, etc. I've generally started doing this stuff at my job. I really want to start taking stuff to the next step, but generally I fumble the ball. So I'm wondering what would be some other great places to interact with girls at, mainly because if I mess up with a girl a work, I might seriously get a bad reputation. So what are some other places I can interact with girls at (for beginners, obviously I want to take it slow, slowly climbing the mountain; I obviously don't have experience, or balls for that matter, to talk with a girl out of the blue).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Raziel Kayne

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Originally posted by opentoadvice
whats up yall? I'm starting to talk with girls, figuring what works, what doesn't, etc. I've generally started doing this stuff at my job. I really want to start taking stuff to the next step, but generally I fumble the ball. So I'm wondering what would be some other great places to interact with girls at, mainly because if I mess up with a girl a work, I might seriously get a bad reputation. So what are some other places I can interact with girls at (for beginners, obviously I want to take it slow, slowly climbing the mountain; I obviously don't have experience, or balls for that matter, to talk with a girl out of the blue).
How about starting a conversation with a girl in the supermarket?
 

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Re: Re: I'm starting to experiment with girls, but where should I do it at?

Originally posted by Raziel Kayne
How about starting a conversation with a girl in the supermarket?
What he said. Like Wal-Mart or Fool Lion, etc...
 

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i'm around the same level as you are. i have a whole plan where one day i'll go out to a mall (i think malls would be the best, but whatever you're comfortable with) and i bring a couple notes with me, and i spend the ENTIRE day at that mall and just practice approaches. practicing different techniques, differenet openers, and overall just getting over my fear of rejection. i also decided to hit up a mall which is maybe about 30 minutes away (nothing local), so that your belief system doesn't screw with you more than it should have to.

i think malls will have the most population of girls, however, a lot of them are in groups there. supermarkets and all else mentioned above are good, but there's not that many of them.

if you're old enough to go to clubs/bars, go there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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