"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm starting to believe my ceiling is a 7

captain55

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LOL not all beautiful women fall in to the same category. You have the borderlines who usually date down and the 9's getting out of abusive relationships who are afraid to date a guy capable of even landing a hot chick. Average guys cheat on beautiful women out of their league more often than you think.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

PeasantPlayer

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No such thing as a 10, and I have NEVER seen a 9 in my life. Highest I seen was an 8. And we all have different opinions on what is a 7 8 or 9
 

cola

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Yeah the average married dude i see marys a six and by the time she has 2 kids shes like a 4 so you are ahead of the curve
 

old married dude

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Like someone mentioned it's terrible online for the most part. Out in the real world I have no problems talking to a 7 or 8 and gaining interest, but online I've had 4's apparently turn their noses up to me.
 
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