"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm starting to believe my ceiling is a 7

captain55

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LOL not all beautiful women fall in to the same category. You have the borderlines who usually date down and the 9's getting out of abusive relationships who are afraid to date a guy capable of even landing a hot chick. Average guys cheat on beautiful women out of their league more often than you think.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No such thing as a 10, and I have NEVER seen a 9 in my life. Highest I seen was an 8. And we all have different opinions on what is a 7 8 or 9
 

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Yeah the average married dude i see marys a six and by the time she has 2 kids shes like a 4 so you are ahead of the curve
 

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Like someone mentioned it's terrible online for the most part. Out in the real world I have no problems talking to a 7 or 8 and gaining interest, but online I've had 4's apparently turn their noses up to me.
 
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