"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im so surprised that most alphas dont know about seduction/game:)

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An Alpha is too busy deciding what THOT to allow to sex him up to be thinking about "game". :rolleyes:

And no, "game" doesn't make you an Alpha; instead, it makes you look like this idiot:

 

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game is to create or adjust a connection when one does not form due to existing connection points. in some cases, men of "substance" have connection points already that will fit some or many women's connection points. connections occur whenever bumping into. others the connection points are faulty and always need to be forced or adjusted (game). it's not a bad thing, work with what we are and have is all it is. one can not become an ex-special force by quickly deciding that, so they learn the game or invest the long haul effort to become special forces, multi-millionaire, or athlete. it is much easier and faster to learn a game than to make real improvements. the basis of true rp theory is to increase value (make real improvements). PUA and RP are not the same things.

the bad news is that without game, the alpha will also fall with women over time. not fair.
 

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let me give you an example, I know a lad who is high up in the hell's angels, hes also handsome. The irony is he has quite a low IQ, so he wouldnt know what the hell what you were on about if you explained Sosuave.

However he is the epitome of the word indifferent/D.G.A.F. Ive never seen a guy carry Abundance off with such perfection

his mindset is, "shes lucky to receive 3 words by DM".

he could be halfway through DM'ing a brazilian model, and he would go on a drinking sesh and ignore her.

Then to top it off when you have status, women will make excuses for you "ahh hes just one of the lads, leave him to drink"


point is his status carries him. and women love him.
 

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Ex special forces / millionaires /athletes etc
Being a pro athlete, musician, or a business executive with a multimillion dollar net worth doesn't make a man an alpha.

I've seen ex college athletes who didn't go pro in a sport ultimately turn out to be beta, though they did a nice alpha imitation for a long time, while they were still active in the sport and maybe post college in their 20s. There are plenty of ex-college athletes age 30+ who wifed up someone questionable.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being rich doesn't make you Alpha, nobody here would consider Mark Zuckerberg to be an Alpha Male.

An alpha is someone who displays strong leadership characteristics like Charisma and Confidence. Look at a wolf pack for example, the alpha is the one that leads the pack, usually the strongest one.

Guys on Welfare get more chicks than most celebs/rich people
 

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Being rich doesn't make you Alpha, nobody here would consider Mark Zuckerberg to be an Alpha Male.

An alpha is someone who displays strong leadership characteristics like Charisma and Confidence. Look at a wolf pack for example, the alpha is the one that leads the pack, usually the strongest one.
Zuckerberg did create and does lead Facebook. I agree he isn't what you normally think of when you think of an alpha male, but I find it difficult to say he isn't. He wields more fame and power than you and I ever will.

Here's a guy who had a vision and was driven to make it a reality, and he's done that, with wild success (no matter what I personally think about Facebook). I think there are different types of alphas, especially when you are talking about personality. And because of his wealth and status, no I don't think he would have a problem getting laid.
 

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Alpha is a ridiculous term. But no new words exist to fully explain it. A man can be furthest from alpha and still get women by the score. Men who don’t have a lot of money and couldn’t beat their way out of a paper bag. I have a nephew like that. Short and mostly frail. Every time I see him he has a new hot girl with him. He has the gift.

Knew a guy in college who was about 5’ 10”, skinny as a rail. Not good looking at all. Hot new babe every time I saw him. While his brothers are retards with women.

They have the ability to access a woman’s biology. They do not have doubts and have complete certainty. If you talked this stuff to them they would start laughing at you.

Then I know most high end marines and operators are no different than the average man with women.

ALL MEN get cheated on if they stay in a relationship long enough. Are there exceptions? Possibly but none of you will run into it.
you think it has to do with freindship as well?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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