"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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im so surprised that most alphas dont know about seduction/game:)

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An Alpha is too busy deciding what THOT to allow to sex him up to be thinking about "game". :rolleyes:

And no, "game" doesn't make you an Alpha; instead, it makes you look like this idiot:

 

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game is to create or adjust a connection when one does not form due to existing connection points. in some cases, men of "substance" have connection points already that will fit some or many women's connection points. connections occur whenever bumping into. others the connection points are faulty and always need to be forced or adjusted (game). it's not a bad thing, work with what we are and have is all it is. one can not become an ex-special force by quickly deciding that, so they learn the game or invest the long haul effort to become special forces, multi-millionaire, or athlete. it is much easier and faster to learn a game than to make real improvements. the basis of true rp theory is to increase value (make real improvements). PUA and RP are not the same things.

the bad news is that without game, the alpha will also fall with women over time. not fair.
 

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let me give you an example, I know a lad who is high up in the hell's angels, hes also handsome. The irony is he has quite a low IQ, so he wouldnt know what the hell what you were on about if you explained Sosuave.

However he is the epitome of the word indifferent/D.G.A.F. Ive never seen a guy carry Abundance off with such perfection

his mindset is, "shes lucky to receive 3 words by DM".

he could be halfway through DM'ing a brazilian model, and he would go on a drinking sesh and ignore her.

Then to top it off when you have status, women will make excuses for you "ahh hes just one of the lads, leave him to drink"


point is his status carries him. and women love him.
 

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Ex special forces / millionaires /athletes etc
Being a pro athlete, musician, or a business executive with a multimillion dollar net worth doesn't make a man an alpha.

I've seen ex college athletes who didn't go pro in a sport ultimately turn out to be beta, though they did a nice alpha imitation for a long time, while they were still active in the sport and maybe post college in their 20s. There are plenty of ex-college athletes age 30+ who wifed up someone questionable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being rich doesn't make you Alpha, nobody here would consider Mark Zuckerberg to be an Alpha Male.

An alpha is someone who displays strong leadership characteristics like Charisma and Confidence. Look at a wolf pack for example, the alpha is the one that leads the pack, usually the strongest one.

Guys on Welfare get more chicks than most celebs/rich people
 

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Being rich doesn't make you Alpha, nobody here would consider Mark Zuckerberg to be an Alpha Male.

An alpha is someone who displays strong leadership characteristics like Charisma and Confidence. Look at a wolf pack for example, the alpha is the one that leads the pack, usually the strongest one.
Zuckerberg did create and does lead Facebook. I agree he isn't what you normally think of when you think of an alpha male, but I find it difficult to say he isn't. He wields more fame and power than you and I ever will.

Here's a guy who had a vision and was driven to make it a reality, and he's done that, with wild success (no matter what I personally think about Facebook). I think there are different types of alphas, especially when you are talking about personality. And because of his wealth and status, no I don't think he would have a problem getting laid.
 

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Alpha is a ridiculous term. But no new words exist to fully explain it. A man can be furthest from alpha and still get women by the score. Men who don’t have a lot of money and couldn’t beat their way out of a paper bag. I have a nephew like that. Short and mostly frail. Every time I see him he has a new hot girl with him. He has the gift.

Knew a guy in college who was about 5’ 10”, skinny as a rail. Not good looking at all. Hot new babe every time I saw him. While his brothers are retards with women.

They have the ability to access a woman’s biology. They do not have doubts and have complete certainty. If you talked this stuff to them they would start laughing at you.

Then I know most high end marines and operators are no different than the average man with women.

ALL MEN get cheated on if they stay in a relationship long enough. Are there exceptions? Possibly but none of you will run into it.
you think it has to do with freindship as well?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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