"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know this Women. I'm pretty certain she is an AW. Most times when I bump into her she is always saying "lets get together soon for coffee".

One time I bumped into her twice in the same week in the same part of town. Both times she said " lets do coffee next week" She had this urgency in her voice like she really wanted to meet up.

A week later I call her up and plan a night for coffee. "I'm free Thursday night at 7, I hope that works for you" That is the message I left on her voice mail.

I get a call from her the next day and she says "Sorry Catnip, I can't make it Thursday, lets do coffee later on in the week" She hangs up. No counter date when she is free, Just this endless, "lets do coffee SOMETIME", statement.

Well I bump into her again a few days ago, It's been about 2 weeks since I last saw her. We blabbered for a few minutes then I told her I had to go.

"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.

I'm pretty certain she picked up on my intention.

There was no anger on my part, just no desire to enter into her frame.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Canadian Catnip said:
"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.
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I love the way she started to talk about her schedule after you said you had to go. It was like she was thinking in her mind that she was doing you a favour by giving you a date and it must have been a shock to her system when you turned it down. :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thanks guys. I was not trying to be mean to her. I was just sick and tired of her trying to get me to chase her.

My main thought was,"Sorry lady, I don't jump through your hoops, Now have a nice day".
 
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