“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm so proud of myself.

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I know this Women. I'm pretty certain she is an AW. Most times when I bump into her she is always saying "lets get together soon for coffee".

One time I bumped into her twice in the same week in the same part of town. Both times she said " lets do coffee next week" She had this urgency in her voice like she really wanted to meet up.

A week later I call her up and plan a night for coffee. "I'm free Thursday night at 7, I hope that works for you" That is the message I left on her voice mail.

I get a call from her the next day and she says "Sorry Catnip, I can't make it Thursday, lets do coffee later on in the week" She hangs up. No counter date when she is free, Just this endless, "lets do coffee SOMETIME", statement.

Well I bump into her again a few days ago, It's been about 2 weeks since I last saw her. We blabbered for a few minutes then I told her I had to go.

"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.

I'm pretty certain she picked up on my intention.

There was no anger on my part, just no desire to enter into her frame.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Canadian Catnip said:
"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.
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I love the way she started to talk about her schedule after you said you had to go. It was like she was thinking in her mind that she was doing you a favour by giving you a date and it must have been a shock to her system when you turned it down. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks guys. I was not trying to be mean to her. I was just sick and tired of her trying to get me to chase her.

My main thought was,"Sorry lady, I don't jump through your hoops, Now have a nice day".
 
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