"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know this Women. I'm pretty certain she is an AW. Most times when I bump into her she is always saying "lets get together soon for coffee".

One time I bumped into her twice in the same week in the same part of town. Both times she said " lets do coffee next week" She had this urgency in her voice like she really wanted to meet up.

A week later I call her up and plan a night for coffee. "I'm free Thursday night at 7, I hope that works for you" That is the message I left on her voice mail.

I get a call from her the next day and she says "Sorry Catnip, I can't make it Thursday, lets do coffee later on in the week" She hangs up. No counter date when she is free, Just this endless, "lets do coffee SOMETIME", statement.

Well I bump into her again a few days ago, It's been about 2 weeks since I last saw her. We blabbered for a few minutes then I told her I had to go.

"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.

I'm pretty certain she picked up on my intention.

There was no anger on my part, just no desire to enter into her frame.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Canadian Catnip said:
"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.
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I love the way she started to talk about her schedule after you said you had to go. It was like she was thinking in her mind that she was doing you a favour by giving you a date and it must have been a shock to her system when you turned it down. :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks guys. I was not trying to be mean to her. I was just sick and tired of her trying to get me to chase her.

My main thought was,"Sorry lady, I don't jump through your hoops, Now have a nice day".
 
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