I'm so proud of myself.

[Canadian Catnip]

I know this Women. I'm pretty certain she is an AW. Most times when I bump into her she is always saying "lets get together soon for coffee".

One time I bumped into her twice in the same week in the same part of town. Both times she said " lets do coffee next week" She had this urgency in her voice like she really wanted to meet up.

A week later I call her up and plan a night for coffee. "I'm free Thursday night at 7, I hope that works for you" That is the message I left on her voice mail.

I get a call from her the next day and she says "Sorry Catnip, I can't make it Thursday, lets do coffee later on in the week" She hangs up. No counter date when she is free, Just this endless, "lets do coffee SOMETIME", statement.

Well I bump into her again a few days ago, It's been about 2 weeks since I last saw her. We blabbered for a few minutes then I told her I had to go.

"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.

I'm pretty certain she picked up on my intention.

There was no anger on my part, just no desire to enter into her frame.

 

[KontrollerX]

Nice.

I think you handled it well.

 

[slaog]

"Well, see you around" I said.

"Lets do coffee soon" Said her.

I was deadpan, "Well I got to go, see you later" I said.

She starts with her schedule "Well I work Saturday and Sunday and I have skating on Tuesday and Thursdays so thats my schedule"

I repeat, "Well I got to go, see you later" I give her a nice wave and a smile and depart.

YES, I think to myself.

I love the way she started to talk about her schedule after you said you had to go. It was like she was thinking in her mind that she was doing you a favour by giving you a date and it must have been a shock to her system when you turned it down.

 

[DrD77]

u showed that *****

 

[Desert Fox]

GJ man.

 

[Canadian Catnip]

Thanks guys. I was not trying to be mean to her. I was just sick and tired of her trying to get me to chase her.

My main thought was,"Sorry lady, I don't jump through your hoops, Now have a nice day".